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It’s a Rough Time to be a Gay Virginian

March 7, 2010

Filed under Gay Rights

The election of Governor Bob McDonnell and Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli have made Virginia a pretty hostile place to be gay. Which is a feat for a state that was not exactly pro-gay to begin with. Gov. McDonnell kicked it off by removing discrimination protection in employment for state agencies, and AG Cuccinelli has taken things a step further by informing state colleges and universities that they are violating state law if the enact such policies on their own. The ACLU of VA is already challenging him on it (on grounds that I find terribly interesting because if they are right, they’d be invalidating both Cuccinelli and McDonnell’s actions and possibly effectively establishing a federal anti-discrimination policy for sexual orientation in the public sector), but I find Cuccinelli’s move to be extraordinarily disturbing.

Unlike McDonnell who simply regressed to no particular policy at all regarding sexual orientation, Cuccinelli is contending that NOT discriminating is a violation of state law. I’m intentionally ignoring here the distinction between written policy and observed but not written policy, but I’m doing to to make the point of why Cuccinelli’s action is so much more disturbing than McDonnell’s. I’m not suggesting that Cuccinelli’s letter could be enforced in this manner (if it’s enforceable at all which is questionable), but bear with me while I follow it to it’s theoretical end. One cannot legally prohibit NOT discriminating without simultaneously legally mandating discrimination. They are two sides of the same coin. If I can’t choose NOT to discriminate, then the only choice I have left is TO discriminate. If we ignore the distinction between written and simply followed policy, we’re left with a letter from the Attorney General that effectively makes it illegal for a state school to hire a gay person.

As I mentioned, obviously a school might choose not to discriminate despite the absence of a written policy, but I think prohibiting them from writing down the policies is a pretty clear shot at eliminating the policies altogether. The whole notion of setting up the law to explicitly prohibit the employment of certain groups of people strikes me as not simply “conservative” but a not so small step in the direction of social experimentation on the scale of eugenics.

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Same-sex Marriage in Virginia?

July 17, 2009

Filed under Family, Gay Rights, House Updates

Sorry to get your hopes up. This isn’t the post I’d most like to be writing under that title, but I found it amusing all the same. Yesterday, TheBoyfriend™ and I went to submit our official loan application (for our already pre-approved loan). One of the forms we had to sign (I’m seriously considering getting a signature stamp made…) was a form that really was meaningless except in the instance of a random IRS audit, at which point it would serve as proof that we had gotten credit jointly.

The funny part was the label on the line I signed on. It was labeled “Spouse.” So there you have it, I’ve signed my name as TheBoyfriend™’s spouse, and I kinda liked it.

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Trust Me, They Know

July 4, 2009

Filed under Gay Rights, General

Last Independence Day (and other than the date I don’t know what brings this story to mind), a friend of ours brought her two kids (I don’t know their exact ages but I think the younger one is like 9ish and the older about 11 or 12) over our place to watch the fireworks because you can see the fireworks from the city stadium from our backyard. During the course of the evening, Harry Potter came up (probably a commercial for one of the movies came on our something, but I don’t really recall), and I casually asked if she’d heard the (at that time) news that J.K. Rowlings had announced that the character Dumbledore was gay. She mouthed “They [her children] don’t know what gay is” to me before loudly stating for her children’s benefit, “Yep, Dumbledore is happy as a lark.” To her credit, she wasn’t upset with me for using the “g word” in front of her kids or anything like that, she just didn’t want to explain to them what it meant.

I would never give unsolicited parenting advice or otherwise interfere with a parent raising their child the way they see fit (outside of an abusive situation), but I’d sure love to have sat down and had a talk with her about it. Even if gay marriage, adoption, DADT, etc weren’t such major news items, I’d still find it incredibly naive to assume that an 11 year old doesn’t know what “gay” is. I’m not suggesting that a child knows the ins and outs of gay relationships (or frankly straight romantic relationships) or is all that aware of the political issues surrounding them, but when “that’s so gay” is a common way of responding to something undesirable, you can be sure that by age 11, they are familiar with the word.

It’s actually what they don’t know that strikes me as the reason to talk to them about it. Whether you (as a parent) choose to acknowledge it or not, your kids are going to receive messages about homosexuality; from their peers, the news, and other adults. I don’t think it’s inaccurate to suggest that alot of those messages are going to be very vague and negative. If “gay” is the worse thing a person (or thing or incident) can be called, then how is that going to effect the child’s perception of gay people when they learn what “gay” actually is, or even scarier, if they hit puberty and start realizing that the label may well apply to them!

So here’s my advice to parents out there: your children ARE being taught about homosexuality; if you’d like to have any input into what they’re learning and the attitudes they are exposed to, you’d better make sure one of the voices they are hearing from is yours. I’m not saying you need to go into the details of gay sex or anything, but what’s wrong with noting that those two guys whose house we went to to watch the fireworks love each other the same way mommy and daddy do?

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Biblical Marriage

June 6, 2009

Filed under Gay Rights, Humor

With all the squawking about what kind of marriage is acceptable to God these days, it’s nice to have Betty Bowers, America’s Best Christian , to spell out for us exactly what kind of marriages God likes.


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Olbermann Miss The Point

May 19, 2009

Filed under Gay Rights, Politics

Ok fine, RNC Chair, Micheal Steele’s assertion that gay marriage will cost small business owners in the form of spousal benefits does blatantly ignore the billions that will be pumped into the economy by the addition of gay weddings. Fair enough, and I do certainly appreciate just how much of an ally to the gay community Olbermann has been lately. But if it’s even valid to argue the economics of human rights, Steele’s argument misses the mark in a big way and bothering to argue the other side only serves to validate the faulty framework Steele set up in the first place.

It’s really quite simple. Economically, there is not gay marriage and straight marriage, there is only marriage. Gay people make up approximately 10% of society. Any economic argument for or against gay marriage applies to straight marriage times nine. If the GOP wants to argue that gay marriage is just too expensive, then, by default, they are making the argument that straight marriage is just too expensive by a much wider margin. Steele can’t argue that he wishes to ban gay marriage for economic reasons without simultaneously arguing that he wants to ban straight marriage even more (9X more). If “nobody should be able to get married, period” is the message the GOP wants to sell, more power to them, but I doubt it’s a winning platform.

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Alright, Alright. On Miss CA.

May 14, 2009

Filed under Gay Rights

I haven’t comment on the whole Miss California thing becuase frankly I find the whole thing boring. Frankly, I found her answer to the question relatively uncontroversial, other than perhaps the whole describing mixed-sex marriage as “opposite marriage” but then who expects the type of girls who want to be beauty queens to be brilliant thinkers (not that there aren’t exceptions to the rule). But what I am getting tired of, is reading all the conservatives fawning over how big of a victim she is in the whole ordeal.

Who cares how she answered any question or otherwise performed in the contest? She was put under scrutiny for violating contractual agreements. When she joined the Miss USA pageant she signed her name that she had not had any nude or semi-nude photos taken of her. Yet she had. She signed her name that she would not speak on behalf of any political groups without pageant approval. Yet she has. She signed that she would attend various official events as Miss California. Yet she’s been missing them.

If I lied on my resume to get the job, then began skipping work so I could go work for some of my company’s competitors, I’d be fired almost right away. That’s what Miss CA has done, yet she gets to keep her job. If getting paid to ignore your (ill-gotten) job responsibilities and do whatever you want makes you a victim, where do I sign up? I couldn’t possibly care any less about some beauty queen’s views on marriage equality, but the pity party for the hurt feelings of a spoiled brat who has gotten away with more than anyone else would have been allowed is frankly a bit nauseating.

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  1. The evangelical Christian persecution complex comes into full flower with Carrie Prejean. They feel like the world is a hostile place, hostile to their beliefs and hostile to them personally. That may in some respects be true, but largely because they behave in a manner so offensive even Jesus himself would be appalled.

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And Then There Were Five

May 6, 2009

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Maine is now the 5th state to extend marriage equality to all of its citizens (6th if you count California). That’s 10% of all states and, I’ve been saying that I think 10% is a major turning point. I think marriage equality has gathered enough momentum now that it’s gonna be hard to slow, much less stop.

New Hampshire may well follow suit, and even should the CA Supreme Court uphold Prop 8, another ballot initiative overturning Prop 8 may well be on the ballot as soon as next year (in CA it’s no more difficult to get rid of discrimination in the Constitution than it is to write it in). As more states do it, the bigots lose their number one weapon; fear. They can no longer preach doom and gloom, now they’ll be expected to show how granting equal rights has caused damage, and they will fail, because frankly, it doesn’t. Further, they can’t even keep pushing the activist judge nonsense, because Maine (and perhaps soon New Hampshire) is the second state to legislatively legalize marriage for all it’s citizens.

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Future of the GOP. One Can Hope.

April 17, 2009

Filed under Gay Rights, Politics

A few prominent members from John McCain’s family and campaign are stepping forward to try and persuade the Republican Party that hating gays is no longer a winning strategy.

Few would disagree that the GOP is in disarray right now. One faction will eventually rise and take control (or the whole party could go under, but I somehow doubt that). I think there’s good reason to think that more socially moderate voices such as the McCains and Schmidt will win out over the Rush Limbaughs and Sarah Palins. Don’t get me wrong, the GOP will remain socially conservative, but the more extreme examples of social conservatism stand a good chance of falling by the wayside.

Younger conservatives really just aren’t that concerned with social issues; even among the religious right. Abortion is still a biggie, but not so much as it was for the parents of this new generation. Opposition to gay rights is relatively small and dispassionate among the younger GOP. If the GOP wants to re-achieve a majority, it will court these younger conservatives by easing off on it’s focus on social issues. If it doesn’t, then it will continue to lose until such time as it DOES listen to the Meghan McCain’s and Steve Schmidts of the party.

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  1. Well first off rights do not belong to groups, they belong to individuals; only individuals have rights.

    And secondly, if the government can define “marriage” then what else about our families can they control? Will the bureaucrats, and politicians eventually try to define “love”? I should hope not.

    Marriage is a contract between consenting individuals. The government should have nothing to do with it and the very idea that one must ask permission to marry is a direct insult to our freedom. In fact the implication of having to attain a license to marry is that marriage is a privilege granted by the government. A privilege is the opposite of a right because rights are inherent and do not require permission. Even the Constitution recognizes our unlimited right to contract.

    The best plan?
    Leave the government out of it. And you’re right that the Republican Party and my fellow conservatives should adopt this philosophy. Besides, one cannot call themselves a “conservative” if they advocate big government intrusion into the personal lives of consenting adults. If the government is powerful enough to force one group of morals upon another group, then it is powerful enough to trample the rights of all individuals.

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  2. I’m glad that Meghan McCain is as vocal as she is about LGBT issues. Sure, she enjoys the attention because it helps cement her role as a freshly minted pundit, but she’s sincere, and it’s encouraging to see that her opinions are making news. Besides, anybody named McCain seems to naturally enrage the religious right, so any time she’s in the news I enjoy knowing that she’s sending fundie blood pressure readings through the roof.

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Bigot Quote of the Day

April 8, 2009

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Conservative BeliefNet.com writer Rod Dreher spills the bean on same-sex marriage:

And that being the case [that gay marriage will eventually recieve federal recognition], it might be better for my side if it gets done sooner rather than later. If done sooner, there might still be enough backlash left in the American people to get a constitutional amendment passed erecting a high barrier or protection around religious institutions,

That seems like a pretty clear admission to me that the bigot brigade knows good and well that they are on the wrong side of history. All the apocalyptic talk is hogwash and they know it. Their success is tied completely to a rapidly dying prejudice. They know only a generation from now they will be looked the same way we today looked at those who instituted the Jim Crow laws (indeed it was not much more than a generation ago when they were in effect), so if they want to have anything enacted, the absolutely must move now. Frankly, I think they’ve had their heyday and have accomplished pretty much all they are going to. If they wanted to get anything stronger implemented, they’ve missed their chance.

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  1. What an ignoramous you are! Comparing the Jim Crow laws with same sex marriages….you liberal piece of trash. This also has nothing to do with Civil Rights you liberal moron…I am so sick of you panty weraing liberals saying it goes against our civil rights! Since when does the institution of marriage…which is based from Religious context become a civil rights issue if same sex couples are afforded the rights and privilages from a state and federal level under a civil union? So stop crying it s a civil rights issue…you look like fools. This has never been about a “civil rights” issue…its always been about the destruction of a Religious institution and nothing more. I hope for the sake of Religion in general, when this does go to the Supreme Court they rule to uphold marriage between one man and one woman or we well be opening Pandoras box if it isn’t already open. Next thing we know someone from Utah will want to legally marry his 5 girlfiends…You can’t say no anymore or you would also be the bigots you claim everyone else to be. What about if a man wants to marry his dog? Can’t say no to that either. The same sex marriage issue has been and will always be bogus.

  2. WOW. Number 1, what rock did your crawl from, or rather what trailer did you climb out of? The hate in your voice, the ignorance and lack of knowledge coming from your mind. Comparing gay marriage to bestiality ..haahaa.. Your response speaks volumes of your character. I really hope you don’t have kids. If you do, I really feel sorry for them.. To have a parent like you is an embarrassment.

  3. To Shane:
    Obviously you need to brush up or at least attempt to research the history of marriage in society. Taking a wife was part and parcel of trade in land and stock. Nice!

  4. Shane I have to wonder what exactly you’re responding to there as this particular post wasn’t even an argument for marriage equality (you could easily find one of those on here if you looked around though) but rather an observation of the bigoted right’s own acknowledgment of them being on the wrong side of history.

    If you must have the same old tired arguments you present debunked however, feel free to visit this post.

  5. Look everyone,

    Shane has a point- a legal one at that- whether u like the comparison or not. Fact is, whatever sick pervert thing another person is denied can be considered a violation of that one person civil rights. Moral laws and Moral fortitude or Moral conviction within our peers and puble citizens ditates the application of what gets morally accepted and what doesn’t. So, he is pointing to the other side of a very valid argument. There are many scenario’s to this, but he has a very good point, if people on here can wrap their heads or mind around this from more than just one prospective. Many things that are considered immoral and un-natural are subjected to the restraints and denial of Moral laws. He described one topic, but there are many others. Will people who want to participate in Polygamy continue to be denied this right? Will people who want to practice pediphilia, incest, child pornography get a chance to call their immoral and un-natural desires violations of their civil liberties? So, whether you like Mr. Shane argument and point or not- he is thinking outside the box in the context of some things can’t be summed up as a civil liberties and rights. His point is that if some sick immoral and un-natural perversions is allowed for some then they must be allowed for all. I would guess he doesn’t support any of the deviated stuff but is making the legal argument to what can be deemed a constitutional right. Hope everyone can used their intellectual minds and brains here and see that. Moral laws for natural and traditional copulation. sexual relations and sexual practice should not be blurred with a demand to participate in deviant desires, behavior, and immoral behavior in a society. Laws and Moral laws must be inclusive and uniformed. It is and would be unjust, unconstitutional to continue allow an immoral un-traditional, and un-natural practice of homosexuality to go on and not place restraint or denial on other unethical, immoral(public sex), and perverted desires. Now, this is thinking and looking at the big picture as I believe Shane is trying to express here. G’bye.

  6. Mick,
    I’m tempted to just direct you to the same link I directed Shane to, but since it’s already there and you found yourself unable to click and read, I’ll assume you wouldn’t if I pointed it out again.

    Shane does not have a point- legal or otherwise- at all, nor do you. Polygamy and bestiality (along with your additions of pedophilia, incest, child pornography) are not illegal on the basis of being “immoral and un-natural.” They are illegal because either marriage, as a legal institution, is inapplicable to them (as in the case of polygamy), or because they cause demonstrable harm to others (as is the case with all the other examples you cite).

    You may think that homosexuality is “un-natural,” “un-traditional,” “unethical,” “immoral,” “perverted,” “sick” and whatever other mean-spirited terms you’d like to come up with, but NONE of those alone are a valid reason for making it ILLEGAL or subject to discrimination under the law.

  7. Dolphin,

    Thanks for the intelligent rebuttal. On the point of reading and checking out your link. Most referrals to links is in different font, text color, or underlined after the reference. This was not the case with your link. Sorry I missed it; but based on your rebuttal, it would not have change Shane point and my agreement with it.

    [dolphin responds: The link above is in fact a different color than the rest of the text. But given the fact that once it was explicitly pointed out to you, you still acknowledge that you refuse to read it, it makes your assertion that you "missed it" seem less credible.]

    In a proportionate number of cases, polls, and surveys among many people, the practice of polygamy is considered immoral and un-natural because it is knowly sharing sexual parterships and marriage with a more than one or two women. Even thought this happens in dating, it’s frown on morally as a knowledgeable agreement. It’s passes the gender test, but doesn’t passes the morality test for acceptance. Therefore, moral convictions and conscience generates moral law against it. As for the conclusion of your argument, please understand that there are direct and indirect, seen and unseen consequences, effects, and circumstances of alternative un-natural or abnormal social behaviors and conduct. You can only see them and read about them if people were to study all avenues of them and report or write on it honestly.

    But Dolphin, in your rebuttal, it seems as though you are backtracking or making excuses on the very premises you are arguing for and that is that the other un-natural, immoral, sick, preverted, and unethical examples mentioned earlier are un-natural and abnormal personal desires just like homosexuality. And if these other examples are deemed immoral personal desires and governed by moral laws; then homosexuality should be governed by moral laws also.

    The key words here are “Personal Desires”. If personal desires are concluded to be a civil right for either one person; then other people can argue that their deviated un-natural or immoral personal desire is a civil and constitutional right. We don’t allow these because we set moral laws to prevent the un-natural acts- key words, “un-natural acts”. So why should homosexuality or LGBT behaviors be treated any differently. They are by all means un-natural, un-traditional, and abnormal(different)perferences for sex that you might not see any damage or hurt first-hand or upfront- but it’s happening. You just got to know what to research.

    So, whether you agree with Shane or my point; we are basically saying that you can’t allow deviated, un-natural, personal desires, and immoral acts for one person or group of people and not apply it to homosexuals and gay people personal desires. Kinda long-winded, but I hope you and most of the readers get what I am saying or what point Shane was trying to make. Peace.

  8. Hi Mick, I’m not sure if you understood my response. you see, I’m not interested in engaging you in your whole “being gay is immoral/unnatural (ok, I’ll admit that one made me laugh a bit)/perverted/etc” thing. I’m not gonna take that bait so give it up.

    My point is that whatever you or me or anybody else considers “immoral” (or any of the other mean-spirited words you’ve used), THAT is not how we decide our laws. We don’t, or shouldn’t, create laws to prohibit immoral behavior. We should create laws to prohibit behavior that harms other citizens (and even there there’s a degree of wiggle room).

    I understand Shane and yours supposed “point” which is, stated succinctly, if we can’t legislate (my) morality here, how can we legislate it elsewhere. But that’s presupposing that the government ought to be in the business of legislating a given group or person’s morality. I reject that notion outright. The government should not be legislating morality (neither yours, mine, or anyone else’s) under any circumstances. If legislation does not have an objective, secular reasoning behind it, it should not be passed.

    One last note. Civil marriage is not a “personal desire.” If it were there’d be no problem, as the government cannot prohibit people from desiring something. Marriage is a very specific legal status.

  9. Dolphin,

    O.K. No problem if you don’t want to debate that homosexuality is un-natural and immoral. I wasn’t trying to engage in any indepth discussion on that subject with you either. I actually hate trying to educate and employ logical reasoning and thought to people about it anyway. So not having a debate about that area of the subject was and is welcome.

    However, your points and statements are continuing to make me laugh also. As in when u said, “Civil marriage is not a PERSONAL DESIRE”. what are you thinking when you say this? If people don’t desire to marry, then why would they seek, pursue, or get marry then? Are they being forced to seek same-sex or traditional style marriages?

    Your thinking and counter-argument is not set in social reality or the application of law to social behaviors; so I will digress on this topic. I have expended enuff energy, time, and thought to it. So, I will finish with this statement:

    People don’t understand that moral laws are already in place and used to manage social behavior so that it will not slide into choas. We don’t like the government deciding social norms or acceptable social behaviors; but just think what society or government would be if we did not have these checks and balances on what is a moral or immoral behavior in place.

    People don’t see or know the social downfall of homosexuality or same-sex marriage now, mainly because it is cloaked behind sexual pleasure, but it will surface if the government continues to relax the principles of morality for its citizens and society.

    So, you are entitled to you point and position and I am entitled to mine; but I hope their a greater show of moral conscienousness in the USA for more traditional things that have worked thus far in society and traditional sexual relationship and traditional marriage.

    There is no better success rate in homosexual relationships or marriage than traditional marriages. I guess most these are lustful and pleasure seeking ventures that are held together by the isolation and shame for having the abnormal perference.

    So you all are chasing emotional ghosts that exists because gays and homosexuals refuse to cope with the challenges of traditional relationships and the pursuit of pleasures from traditional marriages and relationships. So LGBT people cop out to homosexuality and gay identity groups. And now they,(LGBT people), want America to give their sick desires a stamp of approval. As long as I get a vote, it will always be NO !! to same-sex relationships(homosexuality)and same-sex marriage. Peace.

  10. Well Mick, seeing as your starting to tip into the beginnings of insults and are still talking past my point instead of to it. I think it’s best if we simply agree to disagree. We disagree on the very purpose of government and legislation so arguing about what laws fulfill that purpose is rather silly, no?

  11. Yes, We are in agreement on those points? Au revoir !!

  12. The person you quoted was right about religious protections. As noted here – http://str.typepad.com/weblog/2009/04/coming-collision-religious-liberty-and-samesex-marriage.html – the main religious issue is how legalized “same sex marriage” will infringe upon religious freedoms. Despite the lies of the Left, this is a real threat and we’ve seen examples around the world and in the U.S. already.

    [T]he widely respected UCLA law professor Eugene Volokh, who favors same-sex marriage, took time out to acknowledge that the religious liberty implications of same-sex marriage are not “scaremongering.”

    Too many liberals (Christian and non-Christian) have been suckered into the exploits of homosexual agenda.

    What supporters of traditional marriage typically argue is as follows:

    - “Same-sex marriage” is as logical as a square circle (“the same sex union of a man and a woman”).
    - These unions do not by nature or design produce the next generation.
    - These unions can never provide a mother and a father to a child. Never.
    - The same rationale used for “same-sex marriage” would also justify marriages involving polygamy, incest or bestiality. And don’t say, “That could never happen.” Did you predict twenty years ago that the Left would want to teach kindergarteners about “same-sex marriage?”

    Therefore, while the relationships are legal and gays are free to love as they see fit, there is no reason for the government to endorse or affirm these relationships. Shrill claims about bigotry and logical fallacies about sexual preferences being “civil rights” are just part of the marketing campaign.

  13. *sigh* OK, come back when you’ve developed some new material. From now on I’m not wasting time on the same old tired debunked arguments against marriage equality. EVERY SINGLE ONE you posted is debunked thoroughly here. If you are unable or or willing to take the time to click a link, then I am unwilling to waste my time reproducing it here for you.

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Marriage Equality in Vermont

April 7, 2009

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The Vermont Legislature has voted to grant marriage equality to all of it’s citizen’s making it the fourth (or fifth pending the California Supreme Court’s ruling on Prop 8 ) state to do so, and the first to do so through the legislature alone.

The legislation blew past 2/3s margin to override the governor’s veto in the state Senate (with a vote of 23-5), but just squeaked by in the House (with a vote of 100-49). Still, the anti-marriage bigots have argued that they only oppose same-sex marriage because it’s not the “will of the people” and the courts shouldn’t decide it. Well now marriage equality has been established undeniably through the legislative process (and in fact by veto-overriding margin). I wonder if those goalposts will now change; let me guess, not the measuring stick will be popular vote referendum alone? Sorta like when former-President Bush said the issue should be left to the states until the states started deciding the opposite way he would have, THEN he decided to push for a federal law (“it should be left to the states so long as they all agree with ME”).

But the biggest story here, in my opinion, isn’t the fact that there are now four states that offer marriage equality, and it isn’t the fact that one state has legislatively done so (though both of those are big deals). It’s the fact that CNN (among others I checked) didn’t even bother to put it on their home page and those that did, it wasn’t a leading story. That tells me that people are beginning to realize that in the years gay marriage has been legal in other states, the dire predictions of bigots haven’t come true. At worst, people are just deciding that, in this economy, there are bigger things for them to worry about than other people’s relationships. Fear is the only tool the bigots have. If that’s no longer working, then the war is already won.

Update: DC has voted to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.
Update 2: Read the interview at the end of the link in the first update. Sure enough the bigot brigade is already declaring that the legislative victory wasn’t “the will of the people” because it wasn’t a direct vote. Hmmm… who could have predicted that? Oh yeah, I did..

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